dynastylnoire:
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trebled-negrita-princess:
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Thoughts?
I think she is dressed appropriately. With a shape like that, not much is going to cover/conceal that ass. The skirt is a decent length to me. Maybe closed toe shoes but other than that, I think she is.
Every female teacher I had wore an outfit similar to this it’s only a question of appropriateness because she looks fine af
she respectable af but also she can get it
if she had no ass this wouldn’t be a question
Misogynoir
Yeah this is definitely misogynoir bc I’ve seen so many white women wit different body types wear something like this
The exact problem I have in church..
The dress codes in high school. Sally Sue could wear coochie cutters, but let me roll up in that bitch with the same shorts on they was calling my mama at LIGHTENING SPEED.
Skirts a good length… Them heels though:/ A bit much
They are kitten heels. My biology teacher in 10th grade used to wear 5 inch or TALLER. TO TEACH.
Black booties make people so uncomfortable. She can’t hide her shape.
I hate this shit so much….everyone has something to say about how black women dress and how we should dress and what’s appropriate as though our bodies are somehow too explicit to be seen during daylight and before children.
It’s only in question because of her body. I had this happen to me while working at NBC. I was by my district manager that I couldn’t wear the dress pants I was wearing because it was “distracting” and showed too much. I blatantly said I have a fat ass that’s not going to change whether I wear these or something else. And I’m damn sure not going to go out a buy a bunch a new dress pants just because you’re uncomfortable. It then became you won’t be put on the schedule until you do so and I hd to go out and spend like $60-$80 on new dress pants I was livid!
Most of my experiences at churches before I landed at the one I am now were very similar. When I was newly saved I didn’t know any better and so when well meaning christian mentors told me I should wear certain clothes or else I would tempt the men and even bought me modest garments I thought it was awesome…but creepy.
the men at my home church were old…very old save one guy that was probablly 10 years older than me. I had grown up around these men. The thought that they were somehow sexually attracted to me because or were “looking at me like that” grossed me out.
….later I found that no matter what I wore, around certain women and some men they felt what I wore was still to tight…I’m top heavy with a fat ass, and thick thighs. I can do nothing to hide this.
I started to have anxiety attacks before I went to church. I also had bdd. It would take me hours to get ready for church. This carried into how i dressed for work. I always felt like I looked immodest no matter what i put on. So I would be late for work and church for years. I started getting in trouble at work for being late all the time.
My boss wanted to know what was going on but I couldn’t tell him about this. I felt ashamed. sometimes I still do.
